(and an intro into the Life Made Conscious Community)
Going It On Your Own
Nothing is done in a vacuum. Nothing great is accomplished in isolation. When we are in a mode of “I need to prove it to myself” is when we learn the inevitable lesson of humility. Once I prove to myself I can manage and do something on my own, what’s next? More challenges to prove what I already know? But that’s what so many of us do. We keep going back to the idea that “I have to do this on my own.”
The Exponential Power of “Greater Than Yourself”
In the military while we were strategically planning we worked with a concept called “force multiplying.” Basically, it’s when you exponentially strengthen a single element by adding in other contributing elements. It’s not just adding more. It’s about substance. The quality of training. The experience of the leadership. The camaraderie of the unit. This concept is not limited to the military. This is how we break through limits, come to realizations, and make things happen we didn’t know we could.
Going Alone Doesn’t Work
We don’t know what we don’t know. We like to stay comfortable in what we know and what we think we do well. But that’s not how we evolve and grow. There’s a risk to doing new things, but there’s also a risk in doing the same things.
The fact is that it’s hard for most men to step outside their comfort zone and receive assistance. The ones that do benefit from learning about themselves from a perspective they never could have given themselves. The risk is facing the discomfort of humility. The reward is being able to see things you never could have seen on your own.
The Proof
Men who take part in groups with other men consistently report big gains in their well-being. Research shows they experience higher self-esteem, stronger social connections, and a greater sense of belonging and purpose. Group participation is linked to better coping skills, reduced isolation, and even improved mental health outcomes like fewer hospitalizations and greater life satisfaction. Simply put, when men come together in a supportive setting, they feel more connected, confident, and equipped to handle life’s challenges.
The Power of Giving and Receiving
The optimal state for humans is to be in a position of giving and receiving. Helping and serving others. Family. Friends. Doing meaningful work. Then also receiving. Allowing others to assist them. Anything outside this natural give-and-receive cycle leads to disconnection, frustration, and feeling stuck.
Why Men Need Community
I’ve been working with men for over 15 years and before that I was in the Army for 8 years. I’m convinced that the way men live healthier, more satisfying lives is to have some form of connection with a group of other men. Friend groups. Church groups. Social groups. It doesn’t matter. Being a part of something that’s greater than the self. It’s vital for mood, outlook, vision, goal setting, self-growth, and spiritual growth.
The Life Made Conscious Community
You can read books, watch videos, and get motivated, but nothing is like surrounding yourself with men who are committed to doing the same work as you.
We all have blind spots. Areas of weakness or limitation we simply cannot see on our own. It’s not about intelligence or willpower; it’s about perspective. Men need other men to reflect what they cannot see in themselves.
Why Community?
When you join a community of growth-minded men, you gain:
- Fresh perspective from men walking their own growth path
- Accountability that keeps you moving forward
- Support when life throws challenges your way
- Challenge when you need a push out of your comfort zone
The Community Structure
The community is designed to provide consistent aspects that maintain momentum:
- Live teaching calls with practical tools and frameworks you can apply immediately. I’ll be teaching on a topic at least once a month on the platform’s live streaming capabilities.
- Live Q&A sessions where you can bring challenges, get direct feedback, and learn from others.
- Weekly focus prompts for ongoing practice and contemplation. Put the things you’re learning into practice throughout the week.
- Ongoing group connection via a message board for sharing ideas, wins, and support between calls.
Is This For You?
This community is for men who:
- Are ready to be honest about where they’re at
- Want to take action, not just talk about it
- Value personal growth, clarity, and meaningful relationships
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Join now for $47/month (Founding Member Price. Billed monthly. No commitment.)
If you’re looking to learn more about the community in general, find a time that works for you here. We’ll set up a 1:1 to answer your questions. No charge.
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John
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