Beyond Surface-Level Solutions Why tips and quick fixes aren’t working It’s easy to find step oriented solutions to problems. The problem is that without direct feedback, we cannot go to the deeper levels that our inner issues require. The problem with content that stays in the realm of ideas Men are already wired to stay… Read More »
Why Men Are Starved For Connection, Purpose, and Growth
When was the last time you had a conversation with another man that went beyond work, sports, or something surface-level? For the men I work with, the answer is usually: “I can’t remember,”or“I used to do that but I don’t have those types of relationships anymore.” This is just the beginning of what’s going wrong…. Read More »
What My 13 Year Old Taught Me About Self Concept
My wife and I noticed that our oldest daughter, at an early age, was extremely shy around people she didn’t know. Not uncommon for kids. When she was at school her teachers would say that she was often softspoken. She would shrink and hide with her friends. My daughter is not a quiet person. At… Read More »
Stop Drifting: Ask What You Really Want in Life
Here’s what happens when we don’t ask what we truly want. We drift. Operating from old patterns, we do the same thing over and over without question. We disconnect. Relationships happen in the present, but we’re stuck in our heads, solving problems that don’t matter. We distract ourselves — with social media, TV, politics —… Read More »
Lost in Midlife? You’re Not Broken — You’re Waking Up
It was my last day at the last job I would ever have as an employee. I was leaving my stable job with great benefits to start my own therapy business. For the first time in my adult life, I was making a career move based solely on what I wanted. Sure, I had chosen… Read More »