Don’t underestimate how important it is for women to have things in order around the house so they can be sexually spontaneous. The benefit of keeping a clean house, is not only a clean house. It’s a good way to be on the same page with your wife. The sexual magic of keeping the bedroom… Read More »
communication
Your “bad mood” isn’t an excuse to mistreat your partner
Taking your frustrations out on your partner is a relationship killer but it’s completely avoidable. You can work with your bad day or bad mood and not take it out on your partner. Your “bad mood” isn’t an excuse to mistreat your partner Taking your frustrations out on your partner is a relationship killer but… Read More »
Your spouse doesn’t have to be your “best friend”. Here’s why.
It sounds perfect. Not only is your husband or wife your husband or wife, but they’re also your best friend. For those couples that can claim this as part of their marital bliss, they really have the best of both worlds. But not all couples are best friends. Nor do they have to be. That’s… Read More »
How to stop being passive aggressive with your partner (say what you really want to say)
A couple that’s been coming to see me for couples counseling for a few weeks has an on-going problem. Like many couples with marital issues, Jenn and Kyle have communication issues. Their particular issue is that they don’t know how to express their anger with one another without being passive aggressive. They’re unable to effectively… Read More »